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Becoming an Encourager is a specific calling in ministry leadership. As leaders we are proved and refined and then proved and refined some more. As an Encourager of faith you will go through some of the toughest trials so that you have the experience to confirm, lend support and champion others within your influence; many of which are going through similar trials. An Encourager has perhaps the most difficult calling, because you first must be greatly affected in order to receive the Lord’s encouragement and refreshing to give you a solid testimony to share. This process of grooming for the assignment of Encourager requires complete surrender. A surrendering to the process of “becoming.” As Encouragers we must be aware that Satan’s tactics will be full of affronting discouragement meant to quiet our expression of Christ’s affirming love.
Your identity and faith will be tested. Our identity is in the Lord, always, but that identity will be tested again and again with assumptions, questions, and outright lies. These questions, lies, and assumptions will come from others as well as yourself. When our identity is questioned, “Are you REALLY loved? If God loved you this trial wouldn’t be happening. You aren’t able to do this; you are worthless,” we can start to question our faith. “Is my faith really strong enough? Do I even have faith since I am questioning God? Does He really love me?” Satan loves to distract us from Christ with these questions and accusations. His goal is to shake us up to make us question and discourage what we already KNOW as truth. When we question God we leave ourselves open to disbelieving in the fullness of His Love. When we go through this kind of testing we have the choice to atempt to ignore those questions with a defensive, “I am NOT listening” with our hands over our ears. Or we can give a big “Shut up!” to Satan by living on the offense with consistent study of scripture and continual engagement with Christ so we are ready to answer those identity scrubbing questions with Truth.
Jesus was tempted to forget his identity and lose faith when He was tempted in the wilderness by Satan. (Luke 4, Matthew 4) Satan said in verse 9, “If you are the Son of God…” He put into question Jesus’ identity in His Father. He attempted to bring question to Jesus’ faith in His Father’s plan in being led into the wilderness. Satan tried to confuse Jesus, but Jesus, continuously engaging with His Father, understood what Satan was attempting and used truth to answer the Devil’s visceral question, “It is written, “‘Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that comes from the mouth of God.’”
You will experience betrayal and temptation. As Encouragers our expression of love is very vocal. We lift up by engaging in joy stimulating prayers, speak passionate and soul inflaming words, teach exalting lessons, and praise to arouse confidence. We aim to inspire. Often times those very words of expression will be used to betray us. Betrayal in budding relationships, enduring friendships, and even a meaningful mentorship. Speaking with confidence and authority can intimidate even the most staunch of your supporters. You will be tempted to run, hide, and stop speaking when you have been deceived in one of your close relationships. You will be tempted to defend yourself against these betrayals. You will be tempted to even return evil with evil. You will be tempted to disengage and isolate. Don’t. This is part of the process…learning to continue in encouragement after discouragement.
We all know the story of Jesus’ betrayal by Judas. Even though Jesus predicted his betrayal I am always astounded by Jesus’ response. He remains gentle, loving and affirming to his betrayer. When Judas asks Jesus in Matthew 26 (v25), “Is it I, Rabbi?” in response to Jesus’ foretelling of a betrayal among the disciples, Jesus answers with a simple affirmation, “You have said so.” Jesus remained at the table teaching, speaking and displaying love for each of the men. He broke bread with them. He continued in His mission.
There will be false accusations and tests to your integrity. When you continue to encourage others despite betrayal and temptation there will still be those who will look for opportunities to discredit you. Sometimes the accusations will be quiet and hidden as whispered gossip. But…sometimes there will be public insinuations upon your honor that leave your reputation trounced, enticing you to attempt to preserve and secure, returning public denunciation with graceless candor. In this case the authenticity of your integrity will be found in your response. We can choose to respond with defensive evidence of our virtue and value, but oftentimes our true nature will be most evident in our silent confidence of the Lord’s intention. This thought process is not advocating to be a doormat for falsehood, but a call to rest in Christ’s promise of security lived in grace-filled obedience.
The Prophet Jeremiah was falsely accused of deserting the Babylonians and imprisoned. (Jeremiah 37-38) Despite being dishonorably imprisoned Jeremiah was faithfully fed a loaf of bread daily. The Lord provided for Jeremiah. Jeremiah says this of the Lord defending him, “But the LORD [is] with me as a mighty terrible one: therefore my persecutors shall stumble, and they shall not prevail: they shall be greatly ashamed; for they shall not prosper: [their] everlasting confusion shall never be forgotten.” (Jeremiah 20:11) Jeremiah remained imprisoned until Jerusalem was freed, even after giving wise counsel to King Zedikiah, but he remained obedient and full of faith that he would be provided for, exonerated, and released. Jeremiah’s integrity remained. He did not compromise himself for the world.
Your perseverance will be increased and proved. Persevering as an Encourager requires this process of refining to take place to prove the foundation of the Encourager is fortified by Christ. Without a foundation of Christ optimism and reassuring support is thin, easily riddled with holes, not beneficial for anyone. True encouragement is genuine and rich, acknowledging difficulty, not glazing over it, and full of experience, not supposition.
There will be moments you will feel like a lion and want to share all that the Lord has shared with you. Conversely, there will be moments you will feel like a mouse and want to hide and protect yourself from other Lions. The choice of the Encourager is to learn to roar of God’s goodness even when you feel small, insignificant, and need encouraging yourself. Even when your feelings try to overwhelm you. You have been given impactful influence for a reason. You are made to encourage for a reason. To be heard…To be known…To be seen…not for your glory, but for Christ’s glory.
Lean into your calling. Lean into this refining process. You are an Encourager. Abide.
hajasongeorge said:
Awesome post. Had a piggyback nugget. Not only was jesus ‘ identity as a son challanged but the fact that he was beloved. Satan omitted it so as to not call any attention to nor give jesus any encouragement from it.
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Brianna George said:
Yes. Very true! It proves Satan KNOWS scripture too. This is an example of the importance of KNOWING Christ with experiencing him by the Holy Spirit and not just memorizing and studying scripture. 🙂 Abiding in him is different from studying him.
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Becky Johnson said:
This felt like a personal conversation between friends. I needed nearly every word. Thank you! My favorite line:
“True encouragement is genuine and rich, acknowledging difficulty, not glazing over it, and full of experience, not supposition.”
THAT was rich 🙂
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Brianna George said:
Thank you so much Becky. Your words are an encouragement to my soul. 🙂
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Becky Johnson said:
As yours were to mine!
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Andrea Wiener said:
God STILL knows what He’s doing 😀
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Brianna George said:
All the time. 🙂
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A Journey With You said:
“Encouraging” words for sure!
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Brianna George said:
Thanks so much. 🙂
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binarybeautynz said:
Interesting Post. I have to admit, I don’t know much about this area, but find your post really insightful
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Brianna George said:
Thank you. Feel free to browse the site and learn some more. I also would love to talk to you if you like.
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themisadventuresofmim said:
WOW!!!! This post was AMAZING! And hit home so much. I can see an encourager in myself (maybe I have found my purpose?) I find so much joy in giving to others and helping others believe in themselves, but feel like I have face a lot of trials myself, and have been waiting for them to slow up and stop, but at the same time, I read the verse last night to “consider it pure joy when you face trials and tribulations,” which is one of my favorite verses.
THANK YOU for sharing this post!
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Brianna George said:
You are so welcome! As encouragers we feed off others encouraging words…and your words have fed my soul. Thank you. 🙂
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stickyboogers said:
This hits home. thank you for writing this.
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Brianna George said:
You are welcome. Thanks for being an encourager. 🙂
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stickyboogers said:
Of course! I love the blogging community it is amazing how much we help and lift each other!
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Nance Biswas: Leaning on Jesus said:
Amen! I can relate to every illustration written here. Thanks for being an encourager to your fellow encouragers! 🙂
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Brianna George said:
Thanks so much. It takes courage to encourage. So thank YOU. 🙂
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lauren | talk of the trains blog said:
I love being encouraged and am an encourager. Thanks for the post. Totally resonated.
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Brianna George said:
Me too. And you are so welcome!
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Ashlee S. Barclay said:
Bookmarked, favorited, shared, etc!!! This was so needed at this very moment! While my blogging journey is very new (only about 2 months), my spiritual journey is not really “new,” but I never nurtured it as an adult. When I began blogging, my spiritual knowledge and acknowledgement was still very child-like. I think that is why He has placed me on this journey, and I am trying to walk in it the way He has shown it to me. I always have so many questions, because often it doesn’t seem real and I definitely didn’t choose this, so there is doubt within myself like, “God, are you sure?” But I continue to go forth and walk in His will, as He has shown me a little bit of the way and I trust Him. Thank you for this post!
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Brianna George said:
Oh Ashlee! Yes every season of your journey…and mine…is purposeful. He is nurturing you right now. And I love that you use that word to describe the lack..because it is perfect and so true for so many. And I am so right there with you on choosing this part. I am not a writer…but I guess now I am. 🙂 and everyday I am choosing to continue. 🙂
Keep trusting Him!!! And I am praying you continue to receive the revelations he is heaping upon you. 🙂
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Ashlee S. Barclay said:
Thank you so much for those words of encouragement! They are greatly appreciated AND needed! 🙂
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Brianna George said:
Me too. And you are so welcome!
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Plaidfuzz said:
I always think of encouragers as bubbly people who are always “up,” but I never thought about the trials they face behind the scenes.
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Brianna George said:
I think it’s a common misconception. We never know what is going on behind the many masks people wear out of fear. This is why transparency is so imperative. Fear is vanquished when we don’t feed it by hiding behind it. 🙂
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Plaidfuzz said:
I think my comment got eaten. 😦 But, I just said that I always think of encouragers as bubbly and up all the time, and had never thought about the trials they face behind the scenes.
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