My dear sisters in Christ let us remember who we are in Christ and not compare ourselves in titles as mothers, childless, married, single, etc…
Being single, married, widowed, a mother, childless, a stepmother, a grandmother, etc… is a title.
Our titles change with choices we make by freewill. Our identities are given by grace and remain constant despite our choices.
Instead of looking to the Proverbs 31 woman as something to become, whose perfection is something to work to attain, let us realize we ALL ALREADY ARE the Proverbs 31 woman by the blood of Christ.
Let us live out of being that woman. Let us make all our decisions by this identity Christ has given us. Let us rest in what he has already created us to be; His Proverbs 31 woman. Let us lift up and encourage one another as already being that perfected creation…because we are, by grace.
This woman can perform all these good works because she knows who she is. She knows her identity. She believes in her identity. She knows she is loved, worthy and valued…by the Lord.
You are the Proverbs 31 woman. You are the Proverbs 31 mom. You are the Proverbs 31 wife. You are loved. You are valued. You are worthy.
Believe it. Live out of it. Celebrate the calling and purpose the Lord has for you.