Despite outward appearances, actions, and behaviors we can see Christ in all his creation.
Once you see yourself and others as Christ sees you, you are able to love others as Christ loves and there is no “them” to speak of. You realize all are one in him.
To love is to look in the eyes of a friend or stranger and see Christ.
Whom in your sphere do you need to see as Christ sees?
“We love because he first loved us.”
1 John 4:19